According to a recent survey conducted by Rayden Solicitors, more than 1 in 4 (27%) Londoners believe that the concept of monogamy is no longer ‘realistic’ in modern relationships.
The Modern Marriage Report has drawn on insights from 1,000 UK respondents to uncover how views on marriage are evolving, examining which traditions still hold strong and how issues like wellbeing, fairness, and personal choice are reshaping what modern relationships look like, beyond romance.
Is ‘forever’ with the same person still the goal?
According to the new data, just over a quarter of Londoners (27%) now say they don’t believe monogamy is a realistic goal in today’s world. The idea that one person can or should meet all of your life needs is increasingly up for debate.
Marriage patterns in London have similarly shifted away from tradition. If given the option to cohabit with the same legal rights as married couples, nearly a quarter (23%) of Londoners say they would choose not to marry at all.
Interest grows in ‘sleep divorce’ and ‘marriage sabbaticals’ in London
Alternatives to lifelong monogamy are gaining traction in London as well. Nearly a third (31%) of Londoners would consider taking a “marriage sabbatical” – a temporary, agreed-upon break from the relationship to allow space and time for personal growth rather than separation.
Additionally, nearly over half (58%) of Londoners say they would consider a ‘sleep divorce’ – the practice of sleeping separately for better rest – with 20% already choosing to sleep apart. Many recognise that separate sleeping arrangements can improve overall wellbeing, even if it feels unconventional.
Half (53%) of Londoners also believe couples should have ‘social media prenups’ – formal agreements on what can and can’t be shared online following a breakup, highlighting growing awareness of the role social media plays in modern relationships.
