A lot of people’s love lives took a hit during the pandemic. After all, people were not legally allowed to meet up with each other. Now, however, the pandemic is over, social distancing restrictions have been removed, and life has returned to normal. If you are somebody whose love life was damaged by the pandemic (or you never had one, to begin with) then this post is for you.
Having a healthy, happy love life is essential if you want a good life. If you aren’t sexually fulfilled, you will never be truly happy. Here is how you can spice your love life up.
Hookup Sites
One of the only good things about the pandemic was that more people started using hookup sites. Now, they are extremely popular. A hookup site is a lot like a free casual sex service in many ways, since you can use them to meet those who want sex (and nothing else). If you plan on using a hookup site, then make sure that the one you use has location filters. Location filters mean that you can search according to your geographic area, so only singles near you will show up. When using hookup sites make sure that you do not post too much information about yourself. It’s best to remain partially anonymous since most of the people you will meet, will only meet once.
Social Media
Social media can be a good place to find people who’re interested in sex, too. However, the problem with social media is that many of the people you will follow will already be in relationships. In other words, social media is a bit hit-and-miss. One of the best ways to find people who’re interested in casual sex is to follow specific tags, like ‘casual sex,’ ‘casual dating,’ and ‘sex with strangers.’ People who follow and post using these tags are more likely to be open to having sex with strangers than the average person on social media. If any of your former sex partners use social media, then you can use it to ask them if they would be interested in meeting up for sex.
Consider Escorting
If you have fallen on really hard times and are having absolutely no luck meeting anybody for sex, then why not hire an escort? As long as escorting is legal in your country, it is a good remedy for a dry spell. Make sure that you only ever hire escorts from proper agencies, though. Hiring an escort from an unscrupulous agency could lead to you having sex with somebody who has not had tests done to ensure they are in good health and do not have any infections or diseases.
Having Threesomes
Threesomes can be a great way of spicing up one’s sex life. Unfortunately, most people are too shy to try them out. If you are feeling a little adventurous, then why not give one a go? The best place to meet people for threesomes is actually on hookup sites. You can put a note in your account’s bio specifying that you are interested in threesomes. Then, when people message you, you can add them to group chats with other interested singles and arrange a meet-up.
Being Experimental
If you want a more exciting sex life, then be more experimental. Most people’s sex lives involve the same old things, i.e., missionary position. Try something new with your partner if you have one. If you do not, then have sex with people you ordinarily wouldn’t. As long as you wear protection and take steps to protect yourself when you are meeting new people for sex (by getting to know them and meeting them in a public place first) then experimentation is nothing to fear. Being more experimental will help you to learn more about yourself and your sexuality.
Using Porn
In keeping with the last point’s theme of experimentation, why not use porn to explore your sexuality? The good thing about porn is that it’s unjudgmental and unbiased. You can turn it on and then delete your search history afterward. Nobody has to know what you are watching. This means that you can watch things that you might not ordinarily consider, as long as they are legal. Porn is widely available all over the internet. You don’t have to pay for it unless you want something that’s unique or personalized. Consider investing in some toys to make porn more fun, too.
If your sex life is dead, then now’s the time to revive it. Spicing up your sex life doesn’t have to be difficult. With this post’s advice, in fact, it’ll be easier than ever. Give each point made here some thought and decide whether or not you want to incorporate any of them into your sex rejuvenation strategy.
