Dissatisfaction with sex is often one of the reasons why people are unhappy in a relationship. Fortunately, there’s always something to do if you are disappointed with your intimate life.
The first rule is, of course, communication. If you don’t talk, you don’t understand each other: what you need, like, or want. And only after you start to learn more about each other’s sexual preferences, dislikes or fantasies, you can move to the next step: trying something new. Always keep an open mind about your partner’s kink even if it seems strange (but don’t do anything you don’t want to!). If you don’t know where to start, here are some simple kinky fantasies that you and your partner can easily implement.
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Dirty talk can be embarrassing, but often, it’s one of the best ways to turn yourself or your partner on. To make it more comfortable, focus on your sensations: describe how you’re feeling, give gentle, but encouraging directions, tell them what you want them to do. Whisper and touch your partner intimately – no one can see or hear you. Don’t be ashamed.
You might not know it, but actually, around 50% of people wanted to try bondage at least once in their life! It’s a pretty common fantasy, and you don’t have to rush into full-BDSM. Try dominant/submissive role-play, tying your partner up, blindfolding them, or biting. Just make sure everybody’s okay with it!
Implementing kinks can often be embarrassing. However, if you have good communication with your partner, making their fantasies real can spice things up in bed, allow you to experience something new, and have fun. Just remember about being careful – use safe words, avoid injuries, and buy only safe sex toys. Don’t know anything about dangerous sex toys? Take a look at this infographic provided by The Adult Toy Shop.
